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Pom Poms, Feathers And Fur Because It’s Tuesday And It’s Shoesday.

Pom Poms, Feathers And Fur Because It’s Tuesday And It’s Shoesday.

No more just a pair of in house footwear, the Pom Pom, feathers and fur shoe trend is one that has come to stay as a fashion statement piece. From Carrie Bradshaw’s Dolce and Gabanna Fur Sandals featured in the HBO Sex And The City series to Paul Andrew’s 2017 Fall/Winter Feather sandals at the 2017 New York Fashion Week, the trend has evolved over the years and looks like it’s going no where.   From the high end luxury designers to the high street brands, there is a pair for everyone and because it’s Tuesday and it’s shoes day, here are some amazing designs that would make you want to jump on this trend. They are the perfect way to put some sass and details to a seemingly boring outfit.         There’s so many styles with this trend and after much debate on personal choices, i hopped on a pair. For the high end designers, you will part with $500 upwards while the high street brands sell for between $30 and $100 (N10,000 and above). You can shop for this trend HERE, HERE, HERE and HERE depending on what you’re looking for. And of course from the retail side of life with Sole Divas. Best part is with a pair of barely there sandals or plain pumps you want to add some vibes to, you can make a pair of your own and save some cash. In these easy picture steps i got from DAMASK LOVE, you are well on your way to adding some sass to your footwear closet.          ... read more
Mom Crush Monday With Dakore Egbuson

Mom Crush Monday With Dakore Egbuson

Dakore Egbuson Akande is one of those actors whose character on screen engages you and keeps you in the flow of the movie till the end. Multi talented, as she also sings and has had stage performances with Tony Allen and Weird MC, she is also the first Amnesty International Ambassador. First she is Dakore, then a mum, wife, actress and set to own the world, her style which has evolved over the years but still speaks the same unique language of class and sass is exactly why i’m here. Without saying too much, i would leave the pictures to do the talking on why this screen diva makes the cut as #momcrush on this Monday.               If i don’t know a lot, one thing i do know is she has a love for gladiator sandals.   Peace, Love and More Sass Xoxo, Jay.  ... read more
SoleDivas Shoe Pick Of The Day – Alexandre Birman’s Clarita Sandals

SoleDivas Shoe Pick Of The Day – Alexandre Birman’s Clarita Sandals

From the natural linen covered heels, to the long ankle tie straps and the gingham print, everything about this sandals scream summer, picnics, fun and flirty.   The Clarita sandals by foremost footwear designer Alexandre Birman comes in different fabric designs but this gingham print is why i’m here today.         You can shop the gingham pair here They’re the perfect pair to play dress up on a hot sunny afternoon before a dip in the pool or beach.   Of course cheaper options can be found at Zara, New Look and River Island How would you style your Gingham pair??? Peace, Love and More shoes Xoxo Jay  ... read more
In Her Closet, His Perspective Season2, Episode2- Meet Efemena Adabamu

In Her Closet, His Perspective Season2, Episode2- Meet Efemena Adabamu

This time Efemena Tommy Adabamu creates magic on the second episode in this season of In Her Closet. It’s the second interview where we get to see a man’s perspective of what her closet should be like and Efe Tommy as he is popularly known was spot on. RELATED POST: HIS PERSPECTIVE WITH MOSES EBITE OF MOASH STYLING Known for his man bags and his clean cut styles, Efe has been on the fashion scene for more than just a few years. He is a media personality, TV Presenter, Style enthusiast, Fashion Blogger among many other things. His outing at the New York Fashion Week 2016 was my first real encounter of his fashion statements, on to the Lagos Fashion and Design Week of the same year, where his street style on all 3 days made headlines in the fashion world. RELATED POST: LAGOS FASHION AND DESIGN WEEK 2016 From being in Dubai Design district, and a judge on the Miss Nigeria USA along side famous stylist, Ty Hunter and currently back in New York for the 2017 New York Fashion week, Efe has held the fashion world spell bound not leaving his man bags behind. This is one of those interviews that didn’t come so easy as he was in one event or job or the other almost all year. When he was finally able to send in his answers, he indeed created magic. Permit me to say, he is too much sauce. Enjoy!!! E INTERVIEW WITH EFE JAY: Being a media personality, fashion and style is something you’re obviously very passionate about. Describe your personal style in one word. EFE: Tailored JAY: Man bags... read more
Sole Divas Shoe Pick Of The Day – Monday In Flats

Sole Divas Shoe Pick Of The Day – Monday In Flats

It’s Monday and a fresh start to get those goals. Some days, there’s just no zeal to get into anything higher than 1.5″. This Monday could be one of those days. I always say flat shoes don’t have to be boring. Leave the basic pairs and step out in the shoe pick of the day, the MIU MIU Pearl embellished Flat Nude Pumps. Featuring double straps embellished with pearls and a pointed toe front, the rich nude patent leather makes it all the more interesting. Looking to splurge, you can get these pair here. Wear these with a jumpsuit and a statement jacket and you can even take that from day to night say you have a date with the significant other or even your girls. Other great steals similar to the MIU MIU pair can be found on ASOS. Shop them for as low as 20 pounds or N10,000. Have a great start to the week.   Peace, Love and More Shoes XOXO Jay  ... read more
#IssaThrow Back To My First Official Fashion Outing

#IssaThrow Back To My First Official Fashion Outing

Social media for me has been one of the best things in terms of networking and knowing a lot more about the fashion world generally. From Instagram to Pinterest, Twitter and even Facebook, the wealth of knowledge i have acquired is amazing. Being away from the fashion capital of the country would have slowed me down a lot but for the blessing of social media. I have wanted to attend the Lagos Fashion and Design Week for 4 years in a row and the distance just never made it work. But every Instagram post made me feel like i didn’t miss a thing. RELATED POST: LAGOS FASHION AND DESIGN WEEK Now that i moved to Port Harcourt, there has been more hope of having a lot more fashion related social hang outs and it didn’t take too long before the opportunity of one came by. I didn’t get to know about it until the day before when it popped up on my news feed.   Featuring the legendary artist and renowned photographer Kelechi Amadi Obi, who is also the Editor of Mania Magazine, Top wardrobe stylist Yummie Ogbebor and Ex-model cum Model Scout Bolajo Fawehinmi of FEW modelling agency, the Lagos Fashion and Design Week brought the Fashion Focus Talk to my city and i knew i wasn’t going to miss it for anything. It was my first opportunity to meet Yummie who is one stylist i fancy so much. RELATED: IN HER CLOSET WITH YUMMIE OGBEBOR Perfect timing, kids dropped off at summer school, i rushed to the venue for the 10.30 am program which didn’t start for another hour but... read more
Designer Focus – Avante Garde Footwear Designs That Are Jan Taminiau

Designer Focus – Avante Garde Footwear Designs That Are Jan Taminiau

When Beyonce dropped the 4 album back in 2011, she wore these outlandish shoes that mere mortals will only ever imagine for the album cover and campaign shoot. I stumbled upon the picture again recently and decided to find out more about the shoes. Turns out to be the creation of a dutch designer – JAN TAMINIAU. Taminiau is known for his love for traditional production techniques, antique materials, the search for the right shape and the penchant for aesthetics. His work has a refined, conceptual undertone yet never loses sight of the elegant, feminine and wearable form. I read in an article where he was quoted saying, “I create for the woman of my dreams, for her I produce my own fabrics, for her I discover new forms, techniques and research new materials. All to give women back the art of showing themselves, and thereby proving that romance, attraction, elegance and style still have an important role to play in today’s fashion.” See some more of his designs here     I can rock a few pairs here however avante garde they are. It’s no surprise Lady Gaga is big on this one. Would you invest in any of these? I think i will, just because #collections Peace, love and go gaga Xoxo Jay  ... read more
Woman Crush Wednesday – Bolanle Olukanni’s 90’s Inspired Party

Woman Crush Wednesday – Bolanle Olukanni’s 90’s Inspired Party

Bolanle Olukanni was one of my two favorite contestants for the Mo’s search competition on Ebony Life TV’s auditions for Co Hosts of the Moments With Mo program. It was the first time i heard anything about her and in four years of being on TV, becoming a compere, actress and over all a media personality, she has won my heart and that of many other people. What i love the most about her is her level of growth and the confidence she exudes. Fun loving yet reserved, full of laughter yet conservative but never afraid to tread new territories, she has made the world her own, leaving no stones unturned as it comes to her career. A Leo by birth, she had one of the most fun parties i had seen on social media in a while – #Bolanles90sjam Growing up in the 90’s myself, the decade of Aliyah, Da Brat, Foxy Brown and co, that was one party i would have loved to attend. It was a 90’s inspired themed party and the details that went into achieving it was a 100%. She’s that girl that can go from rachet looking to sexy and sultry and back to take home to mama in a switch. From a transformed body to a constantly upgraded closet , Bolanle is many shades beautiful. That party and the many times over the years that she has killed the fashion game on and off the red carpet plus her sass, wit and down to earth nature is why this stunner is my Woman Crush this Wednesday. All the cool kids came out to play, from Mimi Onalaja... read more
Momspiration Pt 3 – Gorgeous Actress Somkele Iyamah-Idhalama

Momspiration Pt 3 – Gorgeous Actress Somkele Iyamah-Idhalama

I think the first time i ever saw Somkele – Idhalama was a picture of her in an Andrea Iyama swim suit and i’m like “See that body”. Fast forward to when i saw her again in the series “Gidi Up” on Ndani TV and the way she interpreted her role as Yvonne the fashion designer got me hooked on the series. Because social media would always throw stuff in your face, i started to see her pop up everywhere till i hit the follow button on her Instagram profile one day and since then I’ve become a fan. From 93 Days to The Arbitration and then The Wedding Party, every role played was interpreted perfectly. She is a force to reckon with in Nollywood now and has bagged herself quite a number of recognizable awards. I most especially like the fact that she’s not in every screen play, you can tell that she carefully selects a good movie script before jumping at it. Her feisty but loving role as best friend and Maid of Honor to the bride in Ebony Life TV’s record breaking movie, The Wedding Party got my heart. You know those friends that will fight for you to the end even when it gets down to being physical?. She nailed it!!! Best part for me and why she is worthy of this momspiration post is that she’s a mummy. OMG, i almost choked when i saw a picture of her and her son and i’m like, “a baby came out of that body, howwwww???????” Somkele got married in 2014 and had a baby and her snap back... read more
Top Shoe Styles On Sales From New Look For N10,000 and Under.

Top Shoe Styles On Sales From New Look For N10,000 and Under.

Not many people may know or have heard about the brand New Look, but if you know, you certainly know. I have worn the brand since my days in University and when i need some high street love that is friendly to my pocket, i still look to them. With as little (or as much) as N10,000, you can have a pair too. For those who don’t know New Look is a South African-owned British global fashion retailer, founded in 1969, with a chain of high street shops all around the world. Over the years, i have mastered (in every sense of the word) the art of picking their best pieces. I have retailed their shoes too and so can tell a bad choice almost as soon as i see it. I’d always consider them as one of my favorite go to high street brands when my budget would not let me splurge and i’m in need of some retail therapy… What girl doesn’t always need one? RELATED POST: SHOE THRIFTING IN THE HEART OF LAGOS WITH NIMIDE I have shoes from New Look that have lasted me 6 years with little or no damages. And i have been unlucky to have copped some that didn’t last more than a few wears. But now i know the difference and have a smarter way of choosing them and so i no longer fall prey to bad choices. Best part is they go on sale every now and then and you can catch sales on there for up to 70% off sometimes. And because it’s Tuesday and it’s Shoes day, i will be sharing some... read more
Three Generations Of Creative Genii – The Rene Caovilla Brand

Three Generations Of Creative Genii – The Rene Caovilla Brand

I remember so clearly the first pair of Rene Caovilla shoes i ever came across online. They were from Net-A-Porter, i was, as always, feeding my eyes on their new arrivals when these mules jumped at me. It screamed everything Jay’s style. They weren’t too loud and so in your face but you couldn’t help but notice them.   It didn’t take more than a second to click on the brand name and i was let into the world of Rene Caovilla – Lots of Precious stones, Court style, Sling backs, Mules, Flats and the signature silver sparkly outsoles. Of course i was sold in my heart and nothing could stop me from looking at shoe after shoe, with the next pair was something that made me want to see the next. I have not for one time been bored with any of their designs, because every pair comes with just another WOW element. Knowing the creative genius behind the brand became priority and i didn’t stop digging till i was satisfied with the all the information i got. Three generations of the Caovilla family have run the brand from 1923 till date. It all started with the visionary fore father Edoardo Caovilla who opened a workshop to handcraft luxury shoes in Venice.  In the 50s, his son René established the brand and having being born and brought up in aristocratic Venice, in the 60s,  he started to conceive, and then designed and created the iconic pieces of the line: the “Snake” sandals, which is the trademark of the label,  and the thong sandals embellished with pearls. Rene’s Son, named after his grand father, the 3rd generation of... read more
From Imagination To Paper and On Your Feet: It All starts With A Sketch!!!

From Imagination To Paper and On Your Feet: It All starts With A Sketch!!!

In recent times i have been trying my hands on shoe sketching. I would say i generally suck when it comes to drawing, so i’ve had to go back to the basics. I’m not perfect yet, it doesn’t necessarily have to be perfect, but there’s an amazing feeling that comes with being able to interpret those ideas in your head on paper with a sketch. RELATED POST: THE AMAZING ARTWORK OF SOPHIA WEBSTER For every time i go into a stationery store now, i am collecting colored pencils and sketch pads and drawing pencils, it’s my new obsession. Of course I’ve had to look up to some of my favorite footwear designers for inspiration and guidance and it’s great to see that many of these shoes start with a sketch. You own it when you can add this and take that out and adjust this till you get just what it is you’re looking to create. Manolo Blahnik by far has the most collection of sketches and this book Manolo Blahnik Drawings is up on my next “To Buy” list. (Hint Hint – Christmas never can come too early) From Giuseppe Zanotti to Paul Andrew, Blahnik and Jimmy Choo, here are a few of the sketches from which their shoes came to life.         And some more…               Whether they do it themselves or pay people to do it for them, seeing these designs on paper brings some measure of excitment. Manolo Blahnik is by far the God Father of soles, his originality and creativity cannot be rivaled. Let me go back... read more
Bride To Be On A Budget? Create Your Own Fairy Tale.

Bride To Be On A Budget? Create Your Own Fairy Tale.

We see all these pictures of brides in their $1,000 plus shoes, sometimes 2 to 3 pairs, one for every outfit totaling almost $3,000 to $4,000 on the whole. Not everyone has that fairy tale lifestyle, not everyone is there yet! So yea, we have brides to be on a budget (Sometimes a very strict one), who love their shoes and want to get the best their money can buy. If you’re one of them or know one of them, this post is certainly for you. With the current exchange rate of about N370 to 1$ and N474 to a Pound, it’s almost discouraging to want to buy anything. I have been able to come up with shoes from between N10,000 to N100,000 from a few very good brands. In this post, there’s something for everyone. From Kurt Geiger to Badgley Mischka, Ted Baker, MENBUR and Kate Spade, check out these affordable beauties for your special day. For those on the lower end of the spectrum, here are shoes between N10,000 and N50,000: Miss KG pumps for 20 pounds at Kurt Geiger DKNY sandals at $75  Carvela Sandals at 69 Pounds     Carvela Kurt Geiger Peep toe Pumps at 70 PoundsVince Camuto Pumps at $120 Miss KG Sandals at 30 pounds Miss KG Sandals at 29 Pounds     Jessica Wright Sandals at 15pounds   Miss KG Sandals for 25 Pounds And taking it higher on the spectrum (N50,000 – N100,000) Vince Camuto Pumps at $150 Via Nordstrom Badgley Mischka Sandals at $225 via Bloomingdale Schuts Sandals for 110 Pounds via Outnet. Kenneth Cole Reaction at $99 Via Lord... read more
Classic Shoes To Build Your Luxury Collection.

Classic Shoes To Build Your Luxury Collection.

I was chatting with a friend yesterday and she mentioned she was looking into investing in a few luxury shoes but didn’t know which ones to look out for. It’d be a shame to part with hundreds or even thousands of dollars for shoes you would end up not wearing. After loads and loads of reviews and experiences, here are a few classic shoes you cannot go wrong with. I like that they are timeless and so would work with every season year in year out. You can build your luxury collection with these ones and many if not all of them are wide feet friendly. The Valentino Rockstud Pumps – Comes in a wide variety of heel heights, colors and textures and there’s something for EVERYONE. It’s top on my list and costs from $950 upwards at Neiman Marcus, Nordstrom and Net A Porter.     Yves Saint Laurent Tribute Sandals – Are another timeless pair that comes with a mid heel option. Also in a wide variety of colors and textures, they are suitable for almost any outfit choice. They cost about $925 at Neiman Marcus     Christian Louboutin Pigalle Pumps – A lot of people hear Loboutin and automatically attach it to pain. No, in recent times, there have been a lot of comfortable, wide feet friendly Louboutin shoes and these Pigalle Pumps are one of them. Also spotting an 85MM heel option for those that find the 120MM too high. It costs about $550 upwards. Salvatore Ferragamo Varina Flats – Would never go out fashion. If you’re team no heels, these are the shoes for you.... read more
Beauty, Brains and Valentinos – It’s CNN’s Isha Sesay!!!

Beauty, Brains and Valentinos – It’s CNN’s Isha Sesay!!!

Except there’s a story rocking the world, like the death of Michael Jackson, you’d most likely not catch me watching CNN. In the past few years, my husband has kind of rubbed off on me and i find myself tuning in to 401 once or twice a month…Lol! One of the few people i like and would stay tuned anytime i find them on is French born Sierra Leonan Isha Sesay, Anchor and correspondent for CNN International. From her smile to her charisma and high level of intelligence, i find myself glued when she’s on air. Memorable moments with her on TV (Yea they are memorable) for me are her interviews with Actor Djimon Hounsou, Super Model Alek wek and Liberian president, Ellen Johnson Sirleaf. And then in 2014, how she was really into the #Bringbackourgirls campaign when the Chibok girls were kidnapped. I remember also catching a few moments of her coverage from South Africa following the death of Nelson Mandela. Oooh and when she joined Michelle Obama in Liberia and Morocco for an upcoming CNN Films, “We Will Rise: Michelle Obama’s Mission to Educated Girls Around the World.” The film, with Meryl Streep and Freida Pinto, focuses on girls overcoming incredible challenges to achieve an education. I just over all love how passionate she is about what she does. Isha is quite the conservative dresser and so is her life. Outside work, she’s a very private person and you can hardly find anything about her life flying around, but i dug, i dug into her wardrobe… lol! Didn’t find much to be honest but enough to share with you her shoe... read more
Fall 2017: The Jennifer Lopez X Giuseppe Zanotti Collaboration

Fall 2017: The Jennifer Lopez X Giuseppe Zanotti Collaboration

Hey guys, thank God it’s Friday, No? Well, a big yes from this side especially as i get to sleep in longer tomorrow. Anyway, i turned on my computer to do a post on shoe sketches, but i got a hint from shoesphere about the JLo X Zanotti collaboration and i had to quickly share. Yup, sexy actor, singer and performer Jennifer Lopez has just dropped her Fall 2017 collection with Giuseppe Zanotti. She’s been a fan and has been known to collect a lot of his designs so it’s not really a surprise that they’re at it. It’s a second collaboration as there was a Spring collection earlier in the year. Every pair of shoe started with a sketch, be it by the designer or a designing team, it goes from imagination to paper and then reality and this is no exception. This sketch below Gave life to this   There are 4 styles from the fall collection which are expected to go on retail in August. Continue below   And from the spring collection, they had these: None of the styles jump at me so much, looks to me like a repetition of what we are used to. But hey, they must be smiling to the bank as these shoes have been reported to be sold out at Luxury retail outlets Neiman Marcus and Saks5thAvenue with their price tags between $800 and $2,795 from both collections. I hope to see more va va voom in future collaborations. Which of these are your favorites? Peace, Love and More Shoes Xoxo... read more
Diary Of A Shoe Lover – Season 2, Episode 8- This is Where The Story Ends…

Diary Of A Shoe Lover – Season 2, Episode 8- This is Where The Story Ends…

It’s been an amazing 2 seasons in this mini series “The Diary Of A Shoe Lover”. I trust you guys have enjoyed the story so far. What started out to be the story of a girl who was in love with shoes and would clean her bank account dry to get her favorite pair, grew into the lives, times and experiences of three women and their loved ones. I enjoyed writing every episode and i like how i was able to get lost in each character. Your favorite series will come to an end with this episode and i hope you’ve learned a few lessons or can relate to some of the experiences. Enjoy and share your thoughts. Xoxo, Jay. Read Episode 7 Here The store launch was a massive success, everyone came out in their numbers to support us. Family, friends, even my ex colleagues and bosses were there. It had been the busiest 2 months of my entire life, like literally. From the last 3 events of Aishat’s wedding to my vacation to Hawaii and back to get ready for the store opening and then my surprise baby shower, which wasn’t so much a surprise, as i knew it was coming. The days and weeks past had been full of activities. Now was the time i needed to really rest. I was due to have my babies in 8 weeks and the gynecologist we were seeing, as Hakeem never allowed me go for any appointment without him, had hinted i’d most likely not carry the pregnancy to the full term of 40 weeks because it was a multiple... read more
Designer Focus: Around The World With Charlotte Olympia.

Designer Focus: Around The World With Charlotte Olympia.

On my top 10 favorite footwear designers list, Charlotte Olympia would most likely make top 5. There’s something about her designs that jumps at me. Mostly how she uses themes as inspiration and interprets them well with bright colors, distinct details and cheeky designs, that’s what creativity is all about, no?. Over the years, she’s had so many collections and this post is inspired by something she did about 3years ago. She introduced a capsule collection of city inspired T Bar Peep toe sandals called “Around The World”. Each detailed pair representing a city where a Charlotte Olympia store stands. You can find a feather topped show girl on the Las Vegas pair   A chic Queen’s guard on the London pair A golden dress clad Mae West for Beverly Hills Anna May Wong adorns the Hong Kong pair An intrinsically embroidered purple and gold Thai design adorns the Bangkok pair There’s the Coconut Tree representing the most recent store in Dubai A Pom Pom bearing Cheer Leader gives credit to the South Coast Plaza The workings of the statue of Liberty is on the New York pair And a red flamingo represents Miami With each pair made of embroidery, satin, precious stones and leather; these 9 cities are very well represented in the collection. From Zodiac signs to Hollywood glam, the hello kitty, dolly collection, Halloween and even Archie, the comic inspired designs, Charlotte Olympia Dellal is a business savvy entrepreneur and a creative genius.     She’d be my go to brand if I had a themed or costume party. During the London Fashion week to exhibit... read more